For those affected in any way by divorce and are in the process of healing.
Day 23: “Regrets” Letting the past cloud our present does nothing to help us heal and it robs us of precious energy and time. It only prolongs the process. Use the pain of the past to prepare you for your future. Learn and then let go. You can’t do that if you don’t stop looking in the rearview mirror of life.
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Day 22: “Comparison” When we compare ourselves to others, it is really just us comparing our worst to their best, our lack to their abundance, their joy to our pain. I know, because I did it too. You are special. You have gifts and talents that nobody else on the earth has ever had or ever will again, in the way you were created. Only you can do what God has created you to do, and no one can compare to that, even if you are hurting.
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Day 20: “Boundaries” Search out those actions that hurt you and reject those things that God wants you to stay away from so that He can protect you. Sowing seeds of wrong living will only cause you to reap more pain and struggle. It may even kill you.
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Day 19: “Grief” Take your time and do not rush the grieving process. Make time for the ugly cry.
Allow yourself to breakdown with those that are closest to you. Be real. It is not selfish to allow yourself a reasonable time to mourn. Everyone is created differently and you are not a robot.
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Day 18: “Baggage” When we carry things with us into our future that were meant to stay in the past, it causes us to force it upon someone else that does not deserve to have to deal with it. Have you ever wondered what happens to the bags you leave behind? They sit going around in circles until they are collected and destroyed. Let them be. You have places to go and it will only hold you back.
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Day 17: “Yearning” There is someone who does yearn and longs jealously for a sincere relationship with you; Jesus. Take time to let him show you what a real loving relationship is.
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Day 16: “Pain” Jesus gave us the answer for pain. He allows us to feel it to draw our attention to the wounds in our lives and also provides the salve for the soul. Don’t just curl up and feel the pain, get some relief.
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Day 15: “Bitterness” If you see a weed in your garden, do you let stay there? Did you know that it is robbing nutrients and water meant for the fruit God is trying to grow in your garden? Every day you wait, the root grows bigger and it’s seeds will eventually affect the whole garden, if you don’t deal with it.
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Day 14: “Feelings” Don’t beat yourself up because you feel a certain way. Just know that it is ok and you can use every feeling as a chance to have a deeper relationship with Jesus. Tell Him know how you feel. He will help you use it to grow towards becoming complete and whole.
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Day 11: “Thankfulness When you can see and be thankful for the things you still have left, it will allow you to realize that things aren’t as bad as they could be. Be thankful for what you have, because you may be surprised.
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